AMW SAFETY CENTER

[Ms.Kelly-Rene'e Mooney/Founder]

As you know by now we like to support causes like the one we created called "Sing for the Children." So in staying with the "Sing for the children" child abuse awareness theme I've added the AMW Safety Center feed to my page here on Fans of Wingsmagee as I feel it fits in with child safety...tune into America's Most Wanted with John Walsh Saturday nights 9pm est on the FOX network...

Sing for the children:
http://wingsanddreams.ning.com/group/singforthechildren

Breast Cancer,hunger,child health,literacy,rain forest,animal rescue:
http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/clickToGive/home.faces;jsessioni...
The Thomas Scarberry Fund(for Thomas that has a tumor)
http://www.crystalcoastincentives.com/scarberry.html
http://www.diva-within.com/group/thethomasscarberryfund
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=48909034070

America's Most Wanted:
http://safety.amw.com/

As posted on America's Most Wanted Site(2/3/09):
Family, Community, Kids & Teens
Make A Difference For Abused Kids

We see all kinds of horrible crimes here at America’s Most Wanted, but the hardest stories to tell are the ones that involve abused children. Child abuse is more than sexual abuse of children. Take a monster like Greisy Valencia whose crimes were so horrible she’s a member of John Walsh’s Dirty Dozen. Valencia abused and tortured her daughter so severely that investigators are surprised that she lived to tell her story. You might even remember the story of the disgusting fugitive couple Robin Robinson who actually watched her boyfriend, Bill Balser inflict absolutely mortifying torture everyday on her daughters, making their lives a living hell.

April is Child Abuse Awareness Month. Unfortunately, it’s an issue that many people are unfamiliar with. Child abuse and neglect comes in many forms and hurts many children regardless of their community. A child may be beaten, starved or left home alone all day. The best way to make a difference for abused and neglected kids is to get educated.

Here is some information from the Child Welfare Information Gateway to help you recognize and protect abused kids:

The Child:

* Shows sudden changes in behavior or school performance.
* Has not received help for physical or medical problems brought to the parents’ attention.
* Has learning problems (or difficulty concentrating) that cannot be attributed to specific physical or psychological causes.
* Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen.
* Lacks adult supervision.
* Is overly compliant, passive, or withdrawn.
* Comes to school or other activities early, stays late, and does not want to go home.

The Parent:

* Shows little concern for the child.
* Denies the existence of—or blames the child for—the child’s problems in school or at home.
* Asks teachers or other caretakers to use harsh physical discipline if the child misbehaves.
* Sees the child as entirely bad, worthless, or burdensome.
* Demands a level of physical or academic performance the child cannot achieve.
* Looks primarily to the child for care, attention, and satisfaction of emotional needs.

The Parent and Child:

* Rarely touch or look at each other.
* Consider their relationship entirely negative.
* State that they do not like each other.

Types of Abuse
The following are some signs often associated with particular types of child abuse and neglect: physical abuse, neglect, sexual abuse, and emotional abuse. It is important to note, however, these types of abuse are more typically found in combination than alone. A physically abused child, for example, is often emotionally abused as well, and a sexually abused child also may be neglected.

Signs of Physical Abuse

Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the child:

* Has unexplained burns, bites, bruises, broken bones, or black eyes.
* Has fading bruises or other marks noticeable after an absence from school.
* Seems frightened of the parents and protests or cries when it is time to go home.
* Shrinks at the approach of adults.
* Reports injury by a parent or another adult caregiver.

Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the parent or other adult caregiver:

* Offers conflicting, unconvincing, or no explanation for the child’s injury.
* Describes the child as “evil,” or in some other very negative way.
* Uses harsh physical discipline with the child.
* Has a history of abuse as a child.

Signs of Neglect

Consider the possibility of neglect when the child:

* Is frequently absent from school.
* Begs or steals food or money.
* Lacks needed medical or dental care, immunizations, or glasses.
* Is consistently dirty and has severe body odor.
* Lacks sufficient clothing for the weather.
* Abuses alcohol or other drugs.
* States that there is no one at home to provide care.

Consider the possibility of neglect when the parent or other adult caregiver:

* Appears to be indifferent to the child.
* Seems apathetic or depressed.
* Behaves irrationally or in a bizarre manner.
* Is abusing alcohol or other drugs.

Signs of Sexual Abuse

Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the child:

* Has difficulty walking or sitting.
* Suddenly refuses to change for gym or to participate in physical activities.
* Reports nightmares or bed wetting.
* Experiences a sudden change in appetite.
* Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior.
* Becomes pregnant or contracts a venereal disease, particularly if under age 14.
* Runs away.
* Reports sexual abuse by a parent or another adult caregiver.

Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the parent or other adult caregiver:

* Is unduly protective of the child or severely limits the child’s contact with other children, especially of the opposite sex.
* Is secretive and isolated.
* Is jealous or controlling with family members.

Signs of Emotional Maltreatment

Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the child:

* Shows extremes in behavior, such as overly compliant or demanding behavior, extreme passivity, or aggression.
* Is either inappropriately adult (parenting other children, for example) or inappropriately infantile (frequently rocking or head-banging, for example).
* Is delayed in physical or emotional development.
* Has attempted suicide.
* Reports a lack of attachment to the parent.

Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the parent or other adult caregiver:

* Constantly blames, belittles, or berates the child.
* Is unconcerned about the child and refuses to consider offers of help for the child’s problems.

* Overtly rejects the child.

You can make a difference for the children in your life by checking out these resources:

Identifying Child Abuse and Neglect
Resources and information from the Child Welfare Information Gateway website about signs and symptoms of child maltreatment, including training resources.

Preventing Child Abuse and Neglect

Resources and information from the Child Welfare Information Gateway website.